Showing posts with label grandparents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label grandparents. Show all posts

Saturday, April 18, 2015

birthday

Iris finally understood that everyone at the party was there for her when we all gathered around the cake to sing "Happy Birthday." Her face lit up at the line, "Happy birthday, dear Iris..." And she successfully blew the candle out all by herself.


I was very excited for her birthday this year so we decided to invite a bunch of people over to hang out in our backyard. Evan's parents came to town, as did my dad. (My mom couldn't stay for the party because of some appointments she couldn't change back up in North Dakota. But we'll see her again in a couple of weeks.)

Iris and Granddad looking at apple blossoms


Iris with Nonna and Papa.

 In case we were going to forget that Iris is now officially a toddler, she reminds us by constantly saying, "No." Most of the time I then give her two options and she's happy to choose between one of the options. Maybe not my favorite feature of toddlerhood. Something much more exciting is Iris singing the "Itsy Bitsy Spider."




Sunday, December 28, 2014

christmas 2014

We had a small Christmas tree this year. Iris loved it, but her favorite thing to do was to throw the ornaments, so we had to keep her away from them.

Iris is almost as tall as our tree. 

Notice the Christmas bunny. 
Evan's parents came in for Christmas and in true Morgan fashion, they helped on home renovation. Our laundry room now has drywall and paint and a counter for folding and some shelving. I hope this helps with our laundry problem a bit -- it is a beautiful counter for folding clothes.

Christmas brought lots of snow, finally. Iris got to play in the snow, but she didn't love the cold. And she thought the slush on her boots was yucky.



On Christmas Eve, we took Iris to the children's service at the Unitarian church. She loved the spectacle, and especially loved the tree. She managed to stay tolerably quiet through most of the service, but at the end, finally, she had to go outside and run around.

Evan's dad brought his copy of The Night Before Christmas to read to Iris. It was fun to have Iris share in that tradition, although she wasn't ready to sit still through the whole thing.

Papa reads to Iris.


Reading on Christmas Eve and giving me a fake smile. 

We started to open presents on Christmas Eve but Iris was too tired to hack it so the adults opened their presents after bed time and Iris finished opening her presents on Christmas day. This year she was more interactive with actually opening her presents, though at one point she had to stop and check on her bunny light.

Opening presents with Daddy. 
The bunny night light. 

Evan's gifts had a hiking theme to them this year, in hopes that we would get outdoors much, much more in 2015. Iris took to the hiking backpack very well demonstrating the idea with her stuffed animals first. 

Christmas afternoon walk




Saturday, November 29, 2014

thanksgiving

Thanksgiving this year was very quiet. We had planned to have a bigger gathering, but it ended up being just my dad joining us, because Iris had been terribly sick for more than a week prior to the big day. She had started vomiting before I left for two nights to a conference on the 20th, and basically kept it up until the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. We stopped giving her the Losartan, in case she was having a reaction to the medication, but it seems like she might have just picked up a stomach bug. 
  
Granddad's pretty crazy about Iris

I went to yoga in the morning, which was a fantastic way to start the day. Jill and her family came for a short visit, and Iris got to practice hugging and kissing a lot. We had a big meal to celebrate, and Dad gave us a Thanksgiving Day quiz. 

Dara & Iris play with toys

I'm not sure when we'll start her on her medication again. I'd like her to gain some weight back now that she's feeling better. She went a few days without eating anything at all and basically only having formula. It's likely that we'll start her on the Losartan in a week or so.

Otherwise, we are doing okay. And by okay, I mean that there are a lot of highs and lows, related to all sorts of health and insurance woes, along with the regular challenges of parenting, taking care of ourselves, and maintaining a relationship. Things definitely look brighter when Iris is feeling good, though, so we are relieved to have her keeping her food in her belly again. So -- there is a lot to be thankful for this year, and I'm glad to have a day devoted to the intention of gratitude.



Iris having fun playing with holiday Tupperware

Iris and her favorite Baba

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

marjorie: on grandmothers

When I found out I was pregnant, one of the first conversations Evan and I had about the coming baby was what name we would attach to it. The conversation continued over the course of several months but fairly early on I issued a declaration: "If we have a girl, her middle name will be Marjorie, after my grandmother. If we have a boy, his middle name will be Miles, after my grandfather." 

I had great affection for my grandmother (my dad's mom) and liked that I was often compared to her, even when those comparisons involved character flaws, such as being indecisive. [I have since worked much harder to always know the kind of salad dressing I wanted before giving my order at a restaurant.] I was recently talking to my mom, who said, "You look so much like Grammie did." I can't really say that I see the physical resemblance, but I'm happy to have it made. 

Many of my cousins were probably closer with Grammie than I was, owing to geographical proximity. This is something I regret. Especially now that I am a mother I wish I knew so many more things about her. Did she breastfeed, for instance? My dad was her oldest child (after an initial miscarriage). Here is a picture of them, taken in 1949 in Hyderabad, India. 


The back of the photo has her handwriting on it: "July 4, 1949. On the porch of the Hyderabad bungalow."



Grammie's birthday recently passed -- on April 3. I had hoped that Iris would be born on April 3, when I found out her due date was April 10. When April 3 passed and I had still not given birth, I then hoped that I would give birth on the day Grammie died, but Iris couldn't wait that long. Grammie died on April 13, 2013, two days after Iris was born.

I look forward to telling Iris about her. I have the photo of Grammie and my dad in Iris's room along with the prayer that Grammie wrote for me on the back of the stock advertising paper they put in picture frames:


grandparents and grandchildren

Written by my dad -- Sunday 12 June 2005

Since there is sometimes said to be a link between grandparents and grandchildren that “skips a generation”, I asked Grammie (my mother, Marjorie Mendenhall Hoffman), on behalf of my daughter (who, by universal agreement, greatly resembles Marjorie), to tell me about her grandmother, Geneva Pedlar Morrison.


Geneva (called “Neva” by her friends and family) was the daughter of Franklin and Glendora Hurlburt Pedlar, born in March 1875 in Woodland, California. Her father was a schoolteacher and later assistant director of the San Francisco Mint. (His activities in protecting the Mint after the great San Francisco earthquake of 18 April 1906 are another story.) One day when Neva was going home from a party, at the age of 18 or 19, she and her friend heard music and followed the sound to discover a Salvation Army band playing on the street corner. She became involved with the Salvation Army and their evangelistic work, which embarrassed her family. Her parents sent her to live with her grandmother in Sacramento, to distance her from the influence of the Salvation Army. Not long after her arrival, her grandmother (Mom…which grandmother? Do we know? This story is about grandmothers, after all!) took Neva to a camp meeting where a traveling evangelist from Kentucky was holding services. The evangelist, Henry Clay Morrison, was a widower with three young children. He was about eighteen years Neva’s senior, and evidently a convincing suitor, for they were married a short time later.

Geneva Pedlar Morrison gave birth to five children. She had studied at California Polytechnical College (?) to become a schoolteacher, but after marrying, she traveled with her husband between California and Kentucky, spending two years in each location alternately, until Henry Clay Morrison became president of Asbury College in Wilmore, Kentucky. After this, he continued to travel as an evangelist and fund-raiser for Asbury. During his absences, Neva directed operations at the college.

Once, at a camp meeting in Indian Springs, Georgia, a very poor young man came up to the Morrisons and told them he wanted to become a preacher. Neva told him if he would come to Asbury, she would see that he had a place to live and that he could go to college. The man’s name was Zachary Taylor Johnson. Neva prepared a small storage shed near her house for Zachary and his wife, and she ensured that he graduated from the college.

(Mom, add details about Neva’s leg injury and wooden leg.)

In 1910, when Neva was pregnant with her fifth child, H. C. Morrison left on a year-long world tour with a group of other evangelists. During this time, she operated the school. One night in winter the heating plant of the college failed. Neva got up in the middle of the night and walked on her wooden leg down to ensure that the plant was repaired. Neva died in March 1914, at the age of 39. Marjorie never knew her grandmother.

One time in the middle 1940s, Marjorie was visiting college and walked into the cafeteria, where Dr. Zachary Taylor Johnson (now president of the college), called her aside and told her she looked like her grandmother Neva Morrison. Z. T. Johnson called Neva a “saint” (perhaps because she had been so kind to him years before, and perhaps partly because she put up with H. C. Morrison!) All her children thought of her as a saint, too, and adored her.

Saturday, August 24, 2013

a welcome respite

Living in Denver has its perks. One of them is being close to the mountains and another is being close to New Mexico. Evan's job also has its perks. One of them is a company vacation to the Broadmoor in Colorado Springs [incidentally featured in Act Three of This American Life's episode 459: What Kind of Country Is This?].


In addition to getting to meet a lot of Evan's co-workers, my dad drove up to help watch Iris. 
Evan, Dad, and Iris heading back to the room.
 Having him there was very helpful not only because he cared for Iris but also because he served as the weekend photographer. 

Dad getting ready to take a few photos of the mountains




Iris did well the entire weekend [with the exception of a difficult drive on Friday]. We took her with us to eat a couple times and she was very well behaved and refrained from testing out her vocal cords.

Sunday, August 11, 2013

a Morgan family vacation

Evan told me once that his family doesn't take traditional vacations. Instead, they get together and work on big renovation projects. Evan's parents came for a work vacation this past week. And work they did. In addition to painting the entire house, they installed recessed lighting in the living room, knocked down the decrepit patio roof, brought in electrical outlets in the kitchen so we can have under-cabinet lighting...the list goes on. Evan took off some time from work so he could also help with the house. I stayed with Iris most of the time but was able to do a bit of painting on Friday when Laurel came to watch Iris for a bit.

Taking a break for dinner
We had a really nice visit though I'm sure that both Montie & Teresa would have liked to have spent more time with Iris. We were able to spend the evenings together and began talking about plans for the holidays.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

grandad's visit

My dad made a short side trip to Denver on the way home from Kansas.  

He and Iris kept each other very busy. They started with mellow things like reading a book...


...which wore them both out. 

Dad also sang and played guitar for her. By the end of his visit it seems that Iris is gaining greater control of her hands and legs.