Wednesday, August 19, 2015

end of summer



Hiking at Lair o' the Bear

The end of summer surprised me this week.

Iris's daycare had it's official "back to school" night - our first ever. She goes to a Jewish preschool that is on my way to work. I haven't mentioned it much, but she's been attending 2 and then 3 days a week since April, though with several short breaks over the summer -- some voluntarily (vacations to California and New Mexico) and some not (recall hospital stay).

Iris is possibly the most social and outgoing toddler I've ever met. She loves kids, especially. Even with all that, she still doesn't like going to school in the mornings. She always says, "No kids. No school," while we drive there. But she very rarely cries when I leaave and instead goes off and plays either by herself or with another little child. I think she has two difficulties that contribute to her anxiety at school. One, not everyone understands her; and two, she does not follow directions well. I very frequently have to count to three before she obeys me or I have to tell her what the consequence of her disobeyance will be ("I'll take away your blue blanket...").

Part of the surprise at the end of summer comes because we've been so busy right up until the end. We have welcomed Evan's best friend and his family to stay with us in our house for a while, which has been great fun for us all. Iris loves the three new kids we have roaming around our house. We don't have a huge house so it is admittedly a tight fit, but Evan is right when he says that it wouldn't be as easy with any other family.

We also had a vacation to California for Evan's parents' 40th wedding anniversary (wow). Iris got her first taste of ocean (literally) and spent hours running through the house screaming with her cousins.

Playing in the California sand

And, lastly, the excitement of getting ready for school has been supplanted by preparing for a new baby sister, coming in January. I keep forgetting that I'm pregnant, though recently it's been harder to forget. Iris, on the other hand, announces it to people frequently: "I have a new baby sister!" and "I'm a big sister!"

New baby sister