Showing posts with label crib. Show all posts
Showing posts with label crib. Show all posts

Saturday, June 22, 2013

training session

Iris began her 10th week on Thursday. She had a stellar day Thursday, eating well and keeping it all down. Yesterday looked to repeat that pattern up until her nightly fuss time. Yes, vomit. Despite that unfortunate event (and some this morning), she is a learning how to use her body pretty well. Her head control is really impressive. She is also very social. I don't have much to compare her to but I think she is a very happy and curious little girl.

We just returned from our first family trip to Washington Park, one of the many beautiful parks in Denver. She had a great trip. By which I mean to say, she behaved well. We walked a while and then stopped to play frisbee. We also stopped at one point so Iris could have a bottle, which Evan very diligently supplied. Several people stopped to chat and to see Iris. One woman said she had a son who was on oxygen when he was two years old. He is now fifteen and - in her words - a genius. Another woman came by with her 4-month old and wanted to know how old Iris is. My favorite, though, was the man who came up to us and said something like, "Is this a training session?" I laughed and said, "Thank you for calling me out on that." He went on to observe that I was staring intently at Iris and at Evan as if to make sure that the feeding went alright and that Evan was doing it right. I confess. I was. The man went on to say something like, "You can sit back and enjoy the park. You can see he has very strong and steady hands." I did my best to sit back, but I would like to note that part of the reason I was not 'sitting back' was because I was watching the parents on the playground swing their kids on the tire swing. It seemed awfully unsafe to me and the kids were hanging on well but I was worried that they might fall off.

Iris is sleeping well in her crib. The crib happens to be in the same room that Evan has his work station set up so he stayed up working last night in her room while I slept. He loves his job and is happy to be learning 'useful' stuff. He also is experiencing the New Hire Jitters and doesn't feel that he's always performing as well as he should be.




Wednesday, June 19, 2013

new crib night

The baby monitor arrived yesterday in the mail so Iris slept in her big-girl crib last night. I got almost no sleep. We had been keeping her in her bassinet, which had been in our room with us (actually on our bed). It is much easier to check on her when she is sleeping right next to us so last night was pretty sleepless for me. I hope that I'll learn to sleep better with her in the other room.

The big event of the day for Iris is that she started lifting her head forward as if trying to sit further forward (or up) in her bassinet. I have been worried that she won't keep up with her physical development because of the surgery. We're supposed to be doing tummy time with her but keep an eye on her pain cues.

I have been successful in incorporating walks into our daily routine. Yesterday's walk was quiet and cool. Today's was much hotter. I also was also able to read some of Gulp: Adventures on the Alimentary Canal by Mary Roach. This is the book my book club is reading this month and I am very hopeful I'll be able to attend the June meeting. This is the same book club I was in back in 2010 when I was living in Denver. A couple of my girlfriends from high school are in it as well as some of their friends. I really look forward to getting involved again.

I've been getting many compliments about what a good job I'm doing with Iris. While I (of course) appreciate the positive feedback, I really don't think I'm doing anything that anyone else wouldn't do. I had planned to be home with Iris during this time even before we knew of her health issues. Confronted with this new reality, we are responding the only way we know how... I think. That said, it would be very easy to wallow in self-pity. I have found it tremendously helpful to hear from those who have had similarly difficult experiences. I generally enjoy reminding myself that I am not at all that unique; in the case of Iris's recent health issues, I doubly enjoy knowing that our story is not all that unique.

It also helps to remind myself that none of this is permanent. Soon Iris will have grown out of her reflux  (cross your fingers) and she will not need the various meds and oxygen anymore. That will be a happy day. A year out (for the digoxin), but a happy day.

In my limited free time I have done some perusing of available jobs nearby. After living at Children's Hospital for nearly 3 weeks, I had in my mind that perhaps I'd try to get into hospital administration rather than higher education administration. I miss having a job (outside of the house) quite a bit. I have decided to take a leave of absence from my PhD program. This means that instead of defending my proposal in August I will take off the the fall semester and hope to defend in the spring semester. After I defend my proposal I will be ABD (all but dissertation) and I will then (only) have to complete the dissertation itself and defend it.

Today was a two-vomit day. I keep trying to tie it to a particular medication. Really, I just want her off of all of them.

Tomorrow's goals: walk, nap, call opthamology for appointment (I keep forgetting that one), write Anne a letter.